Mum's Moments of Peace

I'm beginning to realise (and it's taken a while) that there are times in a mother's life of drudgery where despite being in the midst of noise and chaos, some peaceful 'me' time can be got.

The first time I realised this was during a play session at Banana Beach. It's one of those 'kids go crazy' kind of places. Lots of bouncing and climbing apparatus, sweets with more E's in them than a raver's pocket and space to run around screaming a lung off.

I realised that once Alexander got to 3 or so he could be left to play alone without me following him so he didn't get stuck or trodden on. He had passed his 'big boy' test by flinging himself down the big curly slide and promptly leaping back up to the top to do it again all before I could shout "Alexander, NOOOOOOooooh". At this age I was also well tuned to his 'really hurt' cry rather than his 'I don't want to do this or I want that' one and knew in an an instant when he needed his Mum.

So the next time I found myself a cosy table, ordered a cappucino and helped myself to one of those magazines full of 'real life' stories. The ones that make you wonder how some people can be so stupid by falling for a mad axe murderer twice!

I had one ear and eye open on scan mode to check all was well and the other focused on the magazine. Alexander came by for a drink every now and again so I knew he was ok and you know what? I actually enjoyed sitting there amongst a few score screaming hyperactive children. Now I actually 'volunteer' to take him especially on a Saturday when it means I get out of doing some of the housework. I used to try and persuade hubby to take him but now..........not a chance!

Last night I enjoyed another hour or so of quiet time. It was Alexander's football training night. The sun was shining and it was very warm. Hubby said he had to do something which meant I took Alexander alone for the first time. On the way out I decided to take a small picnic blanket and a thermos mug of coffee with me.

I got there, laid out the blanket, got comfy and sipped my coffee. The kids were all running around like lunatics - I was lounging around in the sun like a large pink lizard. Next time I must remember a magazine or maybe even a sketchbook. Perhaps I need to pack a 'going out' bag, especially for these occasions?

So for all those hard working Mums out there, go get your kids involved in supervised sports and activities - and treat yourself to some peace and quiet while there 'watching'.